Ningbo has a small wedding room before marriage the woman suddenly to the bride price 680 thousand y k9084

Ningbo has a small wedding room before marriage the woman suddenly to 680 thousand yuan bride love matchmaker very Ningbo friends @ cloud atmosphere in the East Forum: the wedding is set to 680 thousand, the woman suddenly bride, 680 thousand! Do you want to get married? The thing is that the mother-in-law see son-in-law very happy last August, there is a younger counterparts, because the working relationship, often to me for advice, I always love the mouth dessert girl, she will be left a good sister, right a beautiful name, a period of time to get along, the relationship between the two individual like sisters as cordial. My sister is from Zhejiang, Taizhou, near the sea. After graduating from University, she worked in Ningbo for two years. She is 26 years old and has no boyfriend. Coincidentally, my neighbor aunt’s son was 27 years old and have no girlfriend. So my sister cloud made a good matchmaker. The next day, a romantic love hot staged, a period of contact, two people’s feelings grew, at the end of 2015, met the parents of both sides, the marriage is so properly titration. At the beginning of the year, the man’s home began to decorate the new house, and the parents were busy inside and outside. Of course I have some little excitement, how great is that bring a romance to a happy ending, cause! In June of this year, house decoration is nearing completion, both parents sat together to discuss the wedding day, the scene there is no shortage of the matchmaker. So, the two sides held the wedding day in December 18th of this year, according to the Ningbo wedding custom to do everything. As the saying goes: mother-in-law see son-in-law more joy, apparently satisfied with the mother-in-law is the ten thousand son, banquet forthright expressed the intention to give his daughter to buy a car of around 200 thousand as a dowry, the banquet by the man for others such as bedding, supplies are made by the mother-in-law fix. (PS:’s acquisition of a price of about 1 million 200 thousand of commercial housing in Jiangbei Wanda near the decoration, all kinds of electrical appliances spent about 500 thousand, in the first time to the girl’s gift of 16800, 16 years of the Spring Festival mother-in-law and sent 5 gold and a jade bracelet. Of course, not so exaggerated) 680 thousand bride, selling his daughter? It should be perfect to carry on, but never thought, this National Day the man to the woman’s home, quasi father-in-law suddenly said to the 680 thousand bride, said that this is their maritime customs. The last time that I will meet both parents, is also present, her parents did not mention the word bride thing. I talked to the girl in private, and when the man gave me what he wanted, I had to take some of the past, and I was going to get 6-8. As the saying goes: do pro poor (marriage), rich life (birthday), the woman’s family is what Ann heart? This is good, the problem comes out, the woman sings like this, let the man’s family feeling why. Things are really in front of us, we have to solve them. So I have to find a separate girls talk to communicate, see if you can talk with their parents to communicate about, this is 680 thousand of the dowry’s family do not have the economic ability. The boy also spread cards in front of the girls, because the decoration what,.

宁波一小伙已出婚房 结婚前女方突然还要68万元彩礼   非常喜欢做媒的宁波网友@云的气息 在东方论坛发帖:婚期已定,女方突然要68万彩礼,68万呀!这个婚还要不要结?   事情是这样的   丈母娘看女婿很欢喜   去年8月,同行中有个学妹,因为工作的关系,经常向我讨教经验,我这个人总喜欢嘴巴甜点的女孩,受不得她左一个好姐姐,右一个美女的称呼,一段时间相处下来,两个人的关系如同亲姐妹般亲切。妹子来自浙江台州临海,大学毕业后在宁波工作二年,26岁了还没男朋友。无独有偶,我家邻居婶婶的儿子刚好27岁了也没女朋友。于是云姐我顺水人情做了一次红娘。接下来的日子,一场浪漫的恋爱火热上演,一段时间接触下来,两个人的感情与日俱增,在2015年年底,见过了双方的父母,这门婚事也就这么个妥妥滴定了。   年初,男方家就开始新房装修起来,父母忙里外的自然乐呵着。我当然也有些小小的兴奋,成人之美,那是多么伟大的事业!今年的6月份,房子装修已接近尾声,双方父母坐在一起商量举行婚礼的日子,这样的场面自然也少不了我这个红娘。于是,双方择日在今年的12月18日举行婚礼,婚礼一切按宁波的风俗来办。俗话说:丈母娘看女婿越看越欢喜,很明显丈母娘对这个女婿是一万个满意,宴席上豪爽地表示打算给女儿买一辆20万左右的车做嫁妆,双方的酒席由男方办理,其他的比如床上用品、生活用品等都由丈母娘搞定。(PS:男方在江北万达附近购置一套时价120万左右的商品房,加装修、各类电器花了50万左右,公婆第一次给姑娘的见面礼金16800,16年的春节婆婆又送了5金和一个翡翠手镯。)   当然没有这么夸张   68万彩礼,卖女儿?   事情本应该这样完美地进行下去,可是万万没有想到,这个国庆节男方去女方家,准岳父大人突然说是要68万的彩礼,还说这是他们临海的风俗。上次双方父母见面那会,本人也在场,女方父母一字未提彩礼的事情。我私下里曾经跟女孩说起过,到时候礼金什么的男方意思一下总要拿点过去的,就打算拿个6-8万这样。俗话说:穷做亲(结婚),富做生(生日),这女方家到底是安的什么心?这下好了,难题出来了,女方这样一出戏唱得让男方家情何以堪。   事情真实地摆在眼前,总要解决。于是我就单独找女孩子谈话进行沟通,看看能不能跟自己的父母去商量沟通一下,这68万的聘礼男方家实在是没有这个经济能力。男孩也在姑娘面前摊了牌,因为装修什么的,男孩私下也向朋友借了10万购置了家电等物品,这个是他父母不知道的。结婚当天,婚庆呀、拦门红包什么的毛估也要个5-6万,父母年纪大了也不想给他们太多的负担。男方父母也跟我讲的很现实,办酒席男方15桌基本上不会亏进去,另外女方家有17桌的酒席,按预定的4800一桌来计算的话,那也得8万多,再加上烟酒之类的整场婚礼的开销基本上也要在15万之间,而男方父母目前手里的钱只有20万左右。本来是打算拿过去6-8万聘礼的,结果这样一闹,弄的叔叔、婶婶好几天没好好地吃过一餐饭,这难道是卖女儿的节奏?   女孩说:按她们老家的风俗,聘礼基本上在68万-88万之间,女方拿了聘礼之后买辆车,然后再买些其他诸如电器、床上用品之类的东西一起嫁过来。再然后父母收点养老费,一般68万会拿20-30万还过来的。这不明摆着男方花钱买老婆的节奏嘛。再然后,结婚当天,各种红包一个都少不了。   68万彩礼算少了?   好吧,做红娘不是那么简单的一回事,这个我必须得认!7号那天,我给女方父母打了一个多小时的电话,头天晚上我脑子里酝酿了好几遍的台词,可惜到重点上一句都派不上用场。准丈母娘说:当初生这个女儿的时候怎样的艰难,然后女孩5岁的时候,为了保护女儿,自己差点被车撞死什么的,后来又送女儿读大学怎么着,说是现在自己老了,还有一个未成年的儿子(女孩有个正在读高中的弟弟),以后家里的就靠这个女儿了。真的要卖女儿的节奏,听着,我的火气也就上来了,这不明摆着是敲诈嘛。挂了电话,就不好气地对女孩说:你爸爸妈妈这付样子,是纯粹不要你结婚、不要你幸福。他们家的情况我之前就跟你讲的很清楚,一切要根据男方家的经济能力去衡量,68万的聘礼那是绝对不可能的。   女孩子表示一脸的无奈,说是早就跟父母沟通过了,原因是父母现在的收入也不高,想留点钱以后给弟弟买房子什么的,人家嫁个女儿彩礼都收100万以上的,意思这68万还算少了。听完,我刚刚喝下去的一口水,立马吐了出来。想想吧,怪不得现在很多男孩去相亲,都比较排斥家有弟弟的女孩(当然,个别人除外,拍砖的请轻些,本人比较怕疼)。   这一来二去的,几次电话沟通不下,人也过去谈了,女方父母一口咬定要68万的聘礼,说是20万给女儿买车,10万给女儿买结婚用品,余下的钱父母养老。彻底的崩溃!婚期也临近了,婚纱照也拍了,酒席也定了,这婚到底要不要结,男方父母、男孩、本人都比较纠结。   有网友提醒,双方家长碰面、定日子都没有提68万聘礼,后来估计是女方家亲戚给他们出的主意。可见女方爸妈没什么主见。   这婚还要不要结?   临海网友回帖:不结也罢!   @顺水而行:特别反感拿着习俗当幌子,我一朋友也是娶得台州老婆,20W彩礼,女方拿回来40W,差距咋那么大呢?当然女方也是独生子女。   @xxy0226:我就是临海人,但临海没有楼主所说的这样的婚娶规矩,估计也是各家各情况各要求吧。整个问题的关建还是女孩的本身,倘若女孩自己站父母一方或是左右摇摆,这婚不结也罢。   临海姑娘提醒:结婚后会更惨……   @会飞的小螃蟹:临海姑娘飘过。一般人家要68W这样的彩礼是很正常的(在杜桥),但是他们基本是退回绝大多数的的,好面子,过个形式。甚至还会出嫁更高的嫁妆。但是很显然你家的不是这样子的情况。你们应该是第二种,爸妈卖女儿然后倒贴弟弟的(虽然是少部分,但是很不幸你遇到了,深表同情)。对了先告诉你下下,女方有个弟弟,你们如果成了,你就是他们家的姑爷,以后他弟弟结婚的时候你要包他们家酒席的烟酒钱,也是很大的一笔数目,所以楼楼有心理准备,未来肯定很多地方还是比较麻烦的。   所以最后结论是   请珍惜你的宁波丈母娘   @百度贴吧:我前几年结婚就给了3.8万聘礼,所以,请诸位小伙子好好珍惜宁波的丈母娘吧!   @便行经肛:宁波本地妹子省多了,我2个外地同事都娶了宁波姑娘,一个给了6万,一个给了6万8;一个房子还没买现在还住在丈母娘家,一个房子刚买丈母娘给他出了20万。 赶紧找个宁波本地姑娘,宁波丈母娘只要女婿嘴甜,马屁会拍,房子都不会计较,你有没有钱都无所谓。真的。   @是你变了吗:有个宁波丈母娘的好处,1、吃饭有着落,可以双方大人家去蹭饭打牙祭;2、带孩子有着落,双方都可以帮忙带孩子。也不用寄宿在你家,大人自己有窝,可以抱回去带;3、孩子接送有着落;4、家里偶尔有事,有人帮忙。相关的主题文章:

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